I met another girl whom I liked, and I knew that she had a boyfriend. I found her alone, and I talked to her.
Me: hi.
She: hi (a little scared)
Me: I am Woody. What's your name.
She: I am Ashley.
Me: How are you?
...
Me: I know that you have a boyfriend because I saw you with him several times, but if you didn't, would you date me?
She: (smiled) uuuummmm
Me: OK. Your answer is No, but can I ask you why?
She: I usually date among my friend. I prefer to start with someone whom is already a friend because I want to know him in advance.
Me: OK. But dating is for knowing each other. Would you go on a date with me to know me, so?
She: uuummmm...
Me: It means No. Honestly, I liked you for a long time, and I was very shy to tell you, and I knew that you had a boyfriend, and I didn't want to bother you at all. I don't ask you to date me. I just wanted to talk to you and tell you that you are pretty.
She: Thank you.
Me: Do you think that it is OK for me to talk to a girl like this?
She: It depends on the girl. There are two kinds of reactions. Some girls don't like it and have a severe reaction, but some others appreciate the boy's time and effort. I am the latter. I appreciate that you came to me and talked to me.
Me: Thank you so much. Can I have your FB?
She: Yes.
...
Kids, she was the third pretty girl in our university, but I knew that she had no place in my story. I just wanted to give her a chance.
This is our FB conversation after I left her.
Me: Hi Ashley, thanks for adding me. I feel very good. It was more than a year that I wanted to tell you how pretty you are, and I was never courageous
She: Well thank you. I was having a kinda rough morning so you helped make me smile and I really appreciated that. Don't be so nervous in future to approach a girl and compliment her. There are some out there that may not take well to it but most girls will appreciate that you took the time to do that.
Me: Thank you for your advice! The problem is I see no more than three to four girls in a year to deserve a compliment; so, it is hard for me to tell them :) I hope you have a good rest of the day. If I can help you with anything please feel free to tell me. I know you think that we just met, but no worries; you are my friend :)
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Nancy brought me her apartment lease contract renewal for me to sign. I was good today, and I could easily talked to her. I also put some Dean Martin's songs for her to listen. She said that Shani had many of these songs when she was in her house. Anyway, I like these songs. I may even buy them from Amazon. I was very cool to Nancy, and I even made her laugh for a while.
Me: hi.
She: hi (a little scared)
Me: I am Woody. What's your name.
She: I am Ashley.
Me: How are you?
...
Me: I know that you have a boyfriend because I saw you with him several times, but if you didn't, would you date me?
She: (smiled) uuuummmm
Me: OK. Your answer is No, but can I ask you why?
She: I usually date among my friend. I prefer to start with someone whom is already a friend because I want to know him in advance.
Me: OK. But dating is for knowing each other. Would you go on a date with me to know me, so?
She: uuummmm...
Me: It means No. Honestly, I liked you for a long time, and I was very shy to tell you, and I knew that you had a boyfriend, and I didn't want to bother you at all. I don't ask you to date me. I just wanted to talk to you and tell you that you are pretty.
She: Thank you.
Me: Do you think that it is OK for me to talk to a girl like this?
She: It depends on the girl. There are two kinds of reactions. Some girls don't like it and have a severe reaction, but some others appreciate the boy's time and effort. I am the latter. I appreciate that you came to me and talked to me.
Me: Thank you so much. Can I have your FB?
She: Yes.
...
Kids, she was the third pretty girl in our university, but I knew that she had no place in my story. I just wanted to give her a chance.
This is our FB conversation after I left her.
Me: Hi Ashley, thanks for adding me. I feel very good. It was more than a year that I wanted to tell you how pretty you are, and I was never courageous
She: Well thank you. I was having a kinda rough morning so you helped make me smile and I really appreciated that. Don't be so nervous in future to approach a girl and compliment her. There are some out there that may not take well to it but most girls will appreciate that you took the time to do that.
Me: Thank you for your advice! The problem is I see no more than three to four girls in a year to deserve a compliment; so, it is hard for me to tell them :) I hope you have a good rest of the day. If I can help you with anything please feel free to tell me. I know you think that we just met, but no worries; you are my friend :)
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Nancy brought me her apartment lease contract renewal for me to sign. I was good today, and I could easily talked to her. I also put some Dean Martin's songs for her to listen. She said that Shani had many of these songs when she was in her house. Anyway, I like these songs. I may even buy them from Amazon. I was very cool to Nancy, and I even made her laugh for a while.
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