Sunday, August 3, 2014

An hour being with Natalia in Tutti Frutti

I had promised to give Natalia an ice-cream. In fact, she acted in a way to get an ice-cream from me to have an excuse to be with me. We went to a Tutti Frutti store.

I conducted the conversation to talk about relationships. I wanted to know if she was interested to start a relationship with me or not, but it turned out to be a bad idea.



...
She: I got two offers from other boys,....
When a boy offers a girl, a girl considers three things:
His behavior with you.
His behavior with the society.
His behavior with you in the society.
You know, one of them was very good in all three, but I don't want to be with him anymore.
Me: Can I ask you why?
She: I don't want to tell you.

I insisted, and she said something that turned me off. She said that he didn't pay attention to her enough. She was right. It showed me that he just wanted to be with her and not loving her.

....
Me: Do you think about a boy if he hasn't offer you yet?
She: No! Am I crazy to think about him?
...

I thought that she might already think about me, but it seemed to me that I was wrong. She expected me to ask her first, and then she thinks about me. She said that she was with two other boys here, but she didn't like them. It was a big turn off for me. I knew that one of them was Henry, and I didn't want to date Henry's ex. I consider myself better than any other boy here. I don't want to date someone's ex. If she really liked me, she could try to be my friend before going to others.

I also said somethings that turned her off.

She: In a month, you should know that you want to be with the girl or not.
Me: How can I know that?
She: It is either you like her or you don't like her.
Me: If I don't like her that much, should I still offer her?
She: (feeling upset) No. She is not your ... You should like her first.

I remembered when I used to play The Sims, and it was like minus-minus conversations. I couldn't understand that how it can happen in the real life, but now I know. It was my first time that I talked to someone and it made both of us sad. In fact, our expectations were very different from each other.

There was a super pretty girl near us. I watched her for a while. She was with her father.

Me: You know what! I don't want to have a girlfriend. I want a daughter like her. Sometimes I think that I should date a single mom with an adorable little girl :)



In the car, she asked me a question that she didn't expect what my answer could be. I answered her honestly and frankly, and she got very sad.

...
Me: You asked me, and I answered you.
She: No. I didn't want to hear this. Don't tell me more about it.
Me: OK. Promise me not to talk to others about it. It is a secret.
She: OK. Don't worry. I promise.

I decided not to think about Natalia anymore. She is not my type of girl at all. It is true that she likes me, but I can't be with her. I don't want to lower myself because of a girl.

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