Thursday, August 21, 2014

A chat with Shani

I decided to talk to Shani, and let her know that I like her in person. So, I sent her a text in the morning at 10:00 am.

Me: Hi. Is my bowl doing well?
She: Hi. I will call you whenever I came.
Me: Don't rush. I can get it tonight. Additionally, I would like to talk for a few minutes.

She didn't answer my text. I waited for a long time, but she didn't say anything. She probably knew what I wanted to talk to her about. I had no idea about her reaction.

It was 7:03 pm that I got a text from her.

She: Are you available tomorrow at 4:00 pm? I have something to do in downtown, and I wanted to know if I can ask you.
Me: Yes, sure.
And she sent me the address, and we set a time for tomorrow. It was obvious that we could meet tomorrow alone, so I didn't ask her to give my bowl back today.

It was very unfair to me that I like her, and she likes me, and she was about to choose an Indian boyfriend because I couldn't tell her that I liked her. I think that she likes me that she asked me for a ride. She could forget me or never contact me again. I wanted to discuss with her about her text messages today, but I decided to postpone everything to tomorrow.

I had a very long conversation with my cousin in Iran about Shani. She said that it was my mistake that I hadn't told her that night. "Since you were together alone, it was a date. You should have paid for her drink, and you should have told her that night. If she wasn't into you, she would never go out with you alone. In addition, she didn't have any commitment to you that you expected her not to date any other boy," she told me. She was right to some extend, and her words encouraged me to think about Shani more seriously one more time.

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