I talked to Adrian's wife in San Diego about marriage, and I asked her to introduce anyone she found as a match for me. I also asked her about Shirley. She said that she didn't know her. The only thing she knew was that she saw her with another boy one time. In fact, she didn't know anything about the things that Adrian said the other day about Shirley's boyfriends. Adrian's wife was pretty sure that Shirley is not with any of the boys in UCSD. She just said that she may like someone in another town.
Me: I am going to ask her in FB to let me know her.
She: There are two types of girls. Those who appreciate it, and those who hate this. I don't know her, so I can't tell you. You can try it.
She asked me many questions about what kind of girl I like. I told her about Nancy, and I said whatever came to my mind. It was a long conversation so that I can't write it down.
I came back to the library. I decided to start with something else. I asked her about her participation in RoboCup a few years ago. She answered me a few minutes after that.
Me: Did you go to Robocup competitions in Germany? Do you have any photos or movies from those days?
She: I was there, but I don't have any photos.
Me: I can't believe that you were there! You don't have any photos, and I hadn't seen you there in person :)
I am sorry. I know that you are in a travel, and I hope you to have fun there, and I know that it is not probably the way to do it, but nothing else came to my mind. If there is no one in your life "seriously," I would appreciate if you could give me an opportunity to know each other. I can only promise that I am worth it.
I know that it is not the way, and I have never asked someone else, but what else could I do? Do you remember that we were to Robocup together?
She: I am not in a travel. I don't even know if you know where I am or not, and if you know it, how you do know that. Anyway, no problem if you don't believe it. I can't remember you, too.
I am not intended to get to know anybody. thanks.
Me: I didn't say that seriously. It is summer, and I thought that you might be in a travel. I didn't know that it may be misinterpreted. I apologize. I can truly understand that why you answered me like this. I used to write a blog named X one day. You can read my writings in that blog if you would like to, but please don't pass a judgement on me. I apologize again. I hope you forgive me. Please don't answer this message to avoid further irritations.
And she never answered this. Kids, you never know life. She was in the same event with me eight years ago. If I had seen her, I would definitely like her. I could see her that year. I could know her. Shirley is the first and the only girl that I invited to read my blog. I don't know if she will read it or not. I don't even know if there is anybody in her life or not. I don't know if I will see her someday or not. The only thing I know is that she is the only girl whom I made this exception for her.
I talked to Adrian's wife and she said, "If someone wants a continue the conversation then she never answers like this." It seems that she is right. She could say something to continue the chat. I read her sentences again. She might not be angry, but I didn't want to take a risk by continuing the conversation to a point that we never recover from it again. I just wanted to put a temporary end and let her decide about it. She has this choice to read my blog and contact me if she changed her mind. She may have someone in her life like Nancy, or she may have the same reaction to whomever asks her this way. To me, it is a positive plus for her! I don't like my girl let any boy to date her. She should date only special boys :)
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