I decided to upgrade my knowledge by reading articles and watching YouTube videos. The best video series that I watched was this one: How To Be A Real Man by Jad T Jones I recommend everybody to watch this series at least once. Jad looks like my cousin. Although he couldn't help me to get Ann, it reminded me many things that I knew and I forgot.
I also read almost all articles related to dating in WikiHow website. I just wanted to know that what went wrong. These two articles were the funniest one:
How to Date a Celebrity
How to Date a Software Engineer
It kills me how creative these people are. They made specialized dating advice for different professions and different cultures and so on. In short, any problem you think that you have, there are some howto articles in this website for it.
Finally, I figured out what was the problem. These advises are only for those who are going to get a girlfriend. They ask you to ask 10-20 girls to get one. Come on, I haven't seen 10 awesome girls in my whole entire life. How can I ask 10 of them out and expect one to answer me? OK. So why their approach works? It is because when you ask 20 girls, finally, you find a girl who was disparately waiting for a boy to ask her out. They tell you "How to get A girlfriend." They never tell you "How to get THE girlfriend."
I figured out an strange rule. "You can't do anything regarding a girl unless she wants or expect you to do that." For example, you can't ask a girl out unless she wants you to do that. You can't touch a girl unless she wants you to do that. You can't be a boyfriend of a girl unless she expects you to be.
However, there is another rule that is "Time is the main factor changing a girl's desire and willing. Time escalates a girl." If a girl doesn't want something, the only chance is to try to change her mind by letting her thinking about it by spending time with her. If I wanted to be Ann's boyfriend, I needed to spend time with her. I needed to be her friend. Let her know me, and let her think about being my girlfriend. The more time one spend with a girl, the more probable that the girl thinks about him. It is really doesn't matter who you are. You might be the worse person ever in the world. That's why there are stories of girls who fell in love with their kidnappers.
I also read almost all articles related to dating in WikiHow website. I just wanted to know that what went wrong. These two articles were the funniest one:
How to Date a Celebrity
How to Date a Software Engineer
It kills me how creative these people are. They made specialized dating advice for different professions and different cultures and so on. In short, any problem you think that you have, there are some howto articles in this website for it.
Finally, I figured out what was the problem. These advises are only for those who are going to get a girlfriend. They ask you to ask 10-20 girls to get one. Come on, I haven't seen 10 awesome girls in my whole entire life. How can I ask 10 of them out and expect one to answer me? OK. So why their approach works? It is because when you ask 20 girls, finally, you find a girl who was disparately waiting for a boy to ask her out. They tell you "How to get A girlfriend." They never tell you "How to get THE girlfriend."
I figured out an strange rule. "You can't do anything regarding a girl unless she wants or expect you to do that." For example, you can't ask a girl out unless she wants you to do that. You can't touch a girl unless she wants you to do that. You can't be a boyfriend of a girl unless she expects you to be.
However, there is another rule that is "Time is the main factor changing a girl's desire and willing. Time escalates a girl." If a girl doesn't want something, the only chance is to try to change her mind by letting her thinking about it by spending time with her. If I wanted to be Ann's boyfriend, I needed to spend time with her. I needed to be her friend. Let her know me, and let her think about being my girlfriend. The more time one spend with a girl, the more probable that the girl thinks about him. It is really doesn't matter who you are. You might be the worse person ever in the world. That's why there are stories of girls who fell in love with their kidnappers.
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